tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-663512916982953209.post52175448402409257..comments2023-06-12T09:24:05.289-04:00Comments on 101 Bad Desi Dates: 409. BOY VERSUS GIRL???101 Bad Desi Dateshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12694436152283507112noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-663512916982953209.post-85747421512957906502011-08-17T22:15:34.980-04:002011-08-17T22:15:34.980-04:00Dear DhakDhak Girl-
I will def look at the link -...Dear DhakDhak Girl-<br /><br />I will def look at the link - thanks for sharing. As soon as I can get 5 mins for myself :)<br /><br />You raise and an interesting point with your comment about patriarchy. I have some issues with Hinduism. I elude to them in the blog - but yes - you are right. It is "okay" for a guy to remarry but a daughter has to wear a red D for divorce on her head. 101 Bad Desi Dateshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12694436152283507112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-663512916982953209.post-92155289703255483662011-08-17T00:24:58.954-04:002011-08-17T00:24:58.954-04:00Desi Girl, meet the Desi Girl's Guide to Relat...Desi Girl, meet the Desi Girl's Guide to Relationship Survival. http://girlsguidetosurvival.wordpress.com/all-about-relationships/ask-before-marrying/<br /><br />I guess I have a very different attitude than anon. When she/he says,"1000s of years of culture and society tells you no one has come up with a better answer than marriage" I read, "1000s of years of patriarchy have DhakDhakGirlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-663512916982953209.post-77148067699427819792011-07-24T21:21:55.245-04:002011-07-24T21:21:55.245-04:00Not saying that I 'recommend' it... but ma...Not saying that I 'recommend' it... but maybe you could give it some thought. Have your family meet with some eligible bachelors, have a few dates, and see if you get lucky! If you aren't feeling it, you can always turn him down. No harm.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-663512916982953209.post-20235445437121193222011-07-24T13:12:03.087-04:002011-07-24T13:12:03.087-04:00Dear Anonymous -
Well - I am not always Debbie Do...Dear Anonymous -<br /><br />Well - I am not always Debbie Downer - what would the desi version be ... Daya Downer ... and sometimes I the problem is / was me. I felt there was this expectation to bring brown home.<br /><br />I think some of the striking out was due to being attracted to the wrong guys. And desi guys. I dont think all desis are meant to marry desis.<br /><br />And I am a 101 Bad Desi Dateshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12694436152283507112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-663512916982953209.post-12282670886132243302011-07-24T13:11:09.120-04:002011-07-24T13:11:09.120-04:00Dear JNKParmar -
Hhhmm, I have thought about, but...Dear JNKParmar -<br /><br />Hhhmm, I have thought about, but not seriously. Do you recommend it?<br /><br />xo,<br />Desi Girl101 Bad Desi Dateshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12694436152283507112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-663512916982953209.post-32514642260187238092011-07-24T13:07:12.746-04:002011-07-24T13:07:12.746-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.101 Bad Desi Dateshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12694436152283507112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-663512916982953209.post-25666037898941361482011-07-20T11:57:17.550-04:002011-07-20T11:57:17.550-04:00This is just a thought... arranged marriage is a v...This is just a thought... arranged marriage is a very strange concept for me to grasp. Growing up in the US and always gushing about finding 'the one' and the romance that goes along with it. But, there are so many cases in my life now, married to an Indian, that arranged marriages have been successful. They are all young, vibrant, happy couples just like Jayesh and I who found each otherAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-663512916982953209.post-21784403821788963232011-07-20T02:59:11.736-04:002011-07-20T02:59:11.736-04:00"Maybe at some point a person becomes unmarri..."Maybe at some point a person becomes unmarriable – maybe this is my point and now there is no hope for me." :( 1000s of years of culture and society tells you no one has come up with a better answer than marriage. I do not want it to sound like an obligation but dear Desi Girl, who is it you're after in life? Frankly my feeling is that you have a perfectionist streak when people Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com