tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-663512916982953209.post9131189828543419676..comments2023-06-12T09:24:05.289-04:00Comments on 101 Bad Desi Dates: 325. I HAVE NEVER REALLY NEEDED A BOYFRIEND101 Bad Desi Dateshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12694436152283507112noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-663512916982953209.post-86856484061096886172011-03-26T08:05:44.036-04:002011-03-26T08:05:44.036-04:00Dear Anonymous (3) -
Thanks for your support! So ...Dear Anonymous (3) -<br /><br />Thanks for your support! So glad that you read my need versus want point the way I intended.<br /><br />Yes there are all types of readers, who are entitled to their opinion. I stand by what I post, I have been told I have a lot of guts to put it out there in cyber land, so that is reassuring, as are readers like you.<br /><br />And sometimes people read things 101 Bad Desi Dateshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12694436152283507112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-663512916982953209.post-40995859349191705532011-03-26T08:01:36.534-04:002011-03-26T08:01:36.534-04:00Dear Anonymous (2) -
Thanks for you note! I appre...Dear Anonymous (2) -<br /><br />Thanks for you note! I appreciate knowing that you understood my point of wanting versus needing a boyfriend. And I totally agree with you - it is so easy to create false relationships to temp fix something else. <br /><br />xo,<br />Desi Girl101 Bad Desi Dateshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12694436152283507112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-663512916982953209.post-24789626006498594282011-03-24T20:16:32.553-04:002011-03-24T20:16:32.553-04:00it's natural that a person wants to be comfort...it's natural that a person wants to be comforted, no matter how strong, resilient, or if you are a man or woman. to feel like they have someone on their side, just to listen. as a single girl turned duo i understand the desire for a partner (man or woman) that is your confidant. someone who knows to ask instead of having to call. DG doesn't NEED a partner, she wants the comfort. the Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-663512916982953209.post-84364796940601614302011-03-24T19:17:14.913-04:002011-03-24T19:17:14.913-04:00In defense of DG - I didn't think her wanting ...In defense of DG - I didn't think her wanting a boyfriend was negative. I took it that she wished emotional support in a time of need. And actually I can respect someone for being strong and not creating a relationship in a time when others who latch onto to someone because of emotional hardship.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-663512916982953209.post-50056696211523993932011-03-24T18:40:39.114-04:002011-03-24T18:40:39.114-04:00Dear Gompiepie -
Sorry to hear you were appalled....Dear Gompiepie -<br /><br />Sorry to hear you were appalled.<br /><br />Also sorry to share thatI am neither sexist or selfish. In fact I am pretty self-less. My point was, two days after learning my father was ill, really ill, and we had no idea what the outcome would be / could be, I wished that I had my companion, someone to comfort me - and I am not sure how that is selfish. But if you feel 101 Bad Desi Dateshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12694436152283507112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-663512916982953209.post-60365782052596595962011-03-24T18:31:37.041-04:002011-03-24T18:31:37.041-04:00Dear Anonymous -
Yes I hear what you are saying. ...Dear Anonymous -<br /><br />Yes I hear what you are saying. And I am sure I have more to count on than I realize(d). In the first few days it was so overwhelming, and yes I did eventually open up.<br /><br />And yes, all is better.<br /><br />xo,<br />Desi Girl101 Bad Desi Dateshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12694436152283507112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-663512916982953209.post-55341215863400859572011-03-24T18:00:44.806-04:002011-03-24T18:00:44.806-04:00I'm appalled that you realized you only needed...I'm appalled that you realized you only needed a man when your dad was in poor health. You sound selfish and perhaps a little sexist. Good luck finding someone to marry you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-663512916982953209.post-5151084386123396622011-03-24T09:41:28.833-04:002011-03-24T09:41:28.833-04:00Sorry you went through this DG. Being on the othe...Sorry you went through this DG. Being on the other side, even if we are sympathetic or empathetic and want to help, when it's your own friends going through this, one feels helpless. You have people to count on, even if you thought you couldn't talk to them. In situations like this, I think you'd be surprised the roles your friends can play. Hope all is well.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com