Sunday, January 22, 2012


I recently read a quote by Friedrich Nietzsche, “he who has a why to live for can bear almost any how.”

So I am removing all the hows that are in the way of my why. The first thing I am doing is getting on a rigorous work out regiment. I do love working out, and sometimes I fall off the exercise wagon. But when I get back on, the endorphin rush makes me feel unstoppable, energized and electric. I have recently gotten into spinning and think I may have a new addition.

The next thing is, I am off dating, desi or otherwise. I am done trying to stuff a square shaped peg into a round hole. Besides, I am a romantic. Yes, I’m a cynic, but a romantic. I believe that love finds you when you are not looking for it like an obsession. Not that I am living by why for how mantra because of Town & Country, but he does have single vision – work – and nothing gets in the way of his success. And it is time to focus on my single vision - my writing.

The last and most important thing is to take what I learned in my memoir writing class and incorporate that into what I learned in my blogging class and finally launch my blog. A blog that I will write in present tense about past events.

So I sit down at my desk and begin writing. I want about 11 posts written before I launch, so I can post two a day for almost a week. To get ahead so I can catch back up.

 The why for my how, that is my focus.


Misha said...

WoW! you really are a dedicated writer...I just get distracted readin other blogs, I get mind block every time I try to post. 5 times a week is impressive. Oh and on the marriage front it will happen when its meant to've got believe that nad trust your desitny..otherwise you'll just go crazy. xxx

Adventurous Ammena said...

so come on and open this damn present time blog!!!!

101 Bad Desi Dates said...

Dear Misha -

Thanks so much. I am trying :) I cannot do 5 right now, I wish I could! But let's see if I can get back there, I am doing about 3-4. I laugh when I thought I could this daily! Ahhhh ---- soooooo good to dream!


101 Bad Desi Dates said...

Dear Adventurous Ammena - working on it!!!! I just popped into mid-Feb 2010.